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2002

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SANTA FE SECULAR RECOVERY GROUP WELCOMES MORE MEMBERS

Our group was three years old in October, 2002. Although the number of attendees can vary widely, so far we have been able to continue meeting in the private homes of members who have enough room. The meetings are at 7 PM on Thursdays. They generally last two hours, and include snacks and sometimes more.

If there is anything that can be called a central tenet of the group, it's that rigid 12-step routines don't work for everybody, and like LSR's credo, that religion and sobriety don't necessarily have to go together. The Santa Fe group is a secular alternative for people who want to stay sober, but have trouble with a 12-step approach. Some members attend both types of meetings.

Members have become aware of the group in many different ways: two somewhat differently worded newspaper ads, LSR, recovery program referrals, and word of mouth mentions by members of other groups. It is an open meeting format. The meetings usually begin with 30 or so minutes of informal discussion and check-in, which sometimes can suggest a sobriety-related topic. Other times a member will come with a pressing concern they'd like to discuss with the other members.

For more information, or directions, you can contact Jim C. jcadysf@netscape.net  or 505-474-4177 Mike M.  mikemont0@earthlink.net  or phone 505-466-3566 (11/02)

Convenor Workshop in Oakland Sept. 21, 2002

More than 15 current and potential future LifeRing convenors assembled in a meeting room at Herrick Hospital in Berkeley from 9 am to 3 pm on Saturday, Sept. 21, for a Convenor's Workshop hosted by the LifeRing Service Center in Oakland.  (See photo.)  This was a continuation of previous such events, but was the first one to run all day.  We spent most of the morning discussing issues of meeting format, and there was lively participation and sharing of experiences by the veteran convenors present, including Marjorie J., LouAnthony G., Bill S., Gillian E., Lin L., Mark C., Sue T., Chet G., Syl S. and Marty N., and a series of good questions and points of discussion from the participants interested in becoming convenors in the future, including Sharon T., Doris T., Tony P., Powell H., Matthew R., Andree G., and Sharon B.  After a lunch of delivered pizza, we spent about an hour discussing the basic LifeRing "Three S" philosophy (Sobriety, Secularity, Self-Help) led by Marty N. and then had a very productive round-table discussion on starting new meetings, led by Marjorie J. 

LifeRing Board of Directors Resolution on Smoking

A motion was place before the Board of Directors of LifeRing Secular Recovery on June 24, 2002 by Glo M.

A board meeting was convened on July 6, 2002 to consider and vote on the motion.

Present in the online meeting were: Marty N., Marj J., Glo M., Robert B., Bill S., Tom S.

The result of that meeting and vote is as follows: All present voted and the motion carried unanimously.

The effect of the motion is: The motion will be published, for informational purposes in all LSR venues (e.g. email lists, websites, etc.)

Motion as carried:

1. There is no official policy on smoking within LifeRing. As such, the act of smoking does not negate one's sobriety;

2. Individual members, however, may wish to include nicotine as one of their own restricted substances and can expect support in this;

3. Individual meetings can agree to offer encouragement to its members to quit smoking. (all meetings are autonomous & can do anything they want as long as it doesn't violate the 3S philosophy); No meetings are required to do so.

4. Individual members are not prohibited from expressing their opinions vis-a-vis smoking and actively encouraging their fellow members to quit. In addition, groups of members are not prohibited from forming committees for the express purpose of encouraging smoking cessation. (Members not interested are free to ignore them.) (Individual members who also hold office will clearly indicate whether they are speaking as a individual member, or as an elected board member or officer.);

5. Members who are still smoking are welcome to participate in our groups. We will offer education and support for anyone who wishes to quit.

Respectfully submitted,

Tom Shelley LSR Board Secretary

Good Time Is Had By All
At Independence Day BBQ

A good time clean and sober was had by all at the July 4 2002 LifeRing barbecue in Berkeley, CA.  Victor S. (with tongs) assisted by James H. (photo at left) cooked up a mountain of meat. There was a cake to celebrate recent anniversaries (Alicia, 6 years; Marjorie, 4 years; Amy, 2 years; Teresa, 1 year). Neil's homemade key lime pie stole the dessert show.  There was a nice turnout and the weather was perfect. 

Thanks to Andree G. for lending her home, and to Nicholas, Caroline, and Debbie for help with setup and cleanup.  Marjorie and Marty organized the event. 

Another Mailing to S.F. Bay Area Referral Sources

The Service Center mailed out the local meeting schedule and a workbook flyer to a list of 100+ area substance abuse counselors on June 29, 2002, the day before postage rates went up.

This list is separate from the list of about 60 referral sources to which we mailed this material a week earlier. 

For a PDF copy of the schedule, click.  For a PDF of the accompanying flyer advertising the workbook, click.   Marty and Marjorie did the mailing with help from Caroline.

Two Small Mailings to San Francisco Bay Area Convenors and Referral Sources

With postage rates about to go up, there was no time to lose.  On Thursday June 20, two mailings of about 60 letters each went out from the Service Center.  One contained the new local meeting schedule, including the new Redwood City Meeting, plus a flyer advertising the Workbook.  This went to a list of substance abuse treatment providers who have asked to receive current LifeRing meeting schedules.  For a PDF copy of the new schedule, click.  For a PDF of the accompanying flyer advertising the workbook, click

The other mailing went to San Francisco Bay Area LifeRing convenors, former convenors, and friends, also enclosing the new meeting schedule plus a flyer announcing the upcoming July 4 barbecue.  For a PDF of the barbecue flyer, click

Thanks to our database, our own folding machine, an office-quality laser printer, and a postage meter, getting out small mailings like this is well within our capabilities of an evening.  As we get bigger we're going to need heavier artillery, and it might be useful to start keeping an eye out for possible donors of faster printing and mailing equipment. 

Marty did the mailing solo.   -- MN 6/21/02

Sometimes Everything Just Clicks:
The New Redwood City LifeRing Meeting

Sometimes things go just right. Very rarely, but sometimes. Tonight was one of those times.

Gillian E. and I got to the Kaiser Chemical Dependency  treatment facility in Redwood City (about 25 mi south of San Francisco) on time and the director greeted us. She advised us that the facility urgently needed to offer their patients recovery options besides AA. She was familiar with LifeRing from having attended the CD Chief's regional presentation that Marjorie and I had done last fall. She said that we could use any of the group rooms in the brand new facility any night of the week from Mon through Thu at 6:30 when the patients finished their Kaiser sessions, just let her know. Lin L (sockermom) then joined us, and hinted that she might be able to serve as convenor of this meeting for a bit.

The director brought us into a group room where about 15 patients were assembled. We gave our presentation, me doing the "two heads" bit, Gillian explaining Self-Help, and Lin finishing. In the question period, one patient told us that about half the patient group had served notice on staff that if there was nothing but AA available they were either going to drink/use or drop out of the program. About half a dozen hands went up when we asked who would be interested in attending a LifeRing meeting. One woman patient came forward, obviously an executive type, and offered to serve as contact and organizer among the patient group. Thus encouraged, Lin volunteered definitely to be convenor of the meeting for the summer. Gillian offered to be backup. A huddle was held, schedules checked, and Wednesday evenings at 6:30 was picked as the time. Done.

I wish they were all that easy. I'm guessing that Lin will have a good crowd from day one.

-- Marty N. 6/18/02

P.S.  Gillian did the first meeting (Lin had a soccer referee thing) and reports six people in attendance.

Auditing a Workshop for Treatment Providers on Integrating Nicotine Cessation

On June 5, 2002, I attended a four-hour Nicotine Dependence Treatment Training organized by the Alameda County Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Drug (ATOD) Network.  Approximately 40 people filled a fifth-floor conference room at the beautiful new Alameda County Behavioral Services Center at 2000 Embarcadero on the Oakland waterfront.   

All the participants except myself were employed as treatment providers with substance abuse or mental health treatment programs.  Continuing Education Credits were offered. I met several friends there ... [more]

Busy Times: 
From the Service Center Activity Log

Wednesday May 31. Marjorie J and I drive from Oakland south to Hayward in rush hour traffic -- the freeway is a parking lot -- to join in a 6:30 pm support groups presentation to new patients at the Kaiser Chemical Dependency Recovery Program (CDRP) in Union City / Hayward. Normally a 20-minute cruise, this took over an hour. But we got there just in time. A bearded AA speaker was just finishing up with his story. Marj took the floor and told her story and outlined the basics of LifeRing and how it works. Marj opened with emotionally compelling incidents from her life and had the crowd eating out of her hand when she got to the philosophy. [more

Historian William L. White Gives Workshop in Vallejo

Recovery historian William L. White, author of Slaying the Dragon, gave an all-day workshop on the history of addiction and recovery in America on May 16, 2002, at the Moose Lodge in Vallejo CA.  White presented new material to be included in his forthcoming history of addiction in America, titled Chasing the Dragon, as well as previously published material.  He closed with an outline of new trends emerging in addiction treatment and recovery in our time.  Marty N. and Marjorie J. attended and were gratified to hear the speaker mention LifeRing Secular Recovery three times in his presentation, which was attended by about 50 people, mainly people working in the substance abuse treatment field. 

tshirt-cut.jpg (13372 bytes)You Can Make LifeRing T-Shirts for Special Occasions

 It seems you can print any image off a computer onto a transfer and then iron it onto a t-shirt.  The result is in the photo:  custom-made LifeRing t-shirts for a special occasion.  There's Bill, Amy and Marjorie, all of Oakland CA, at a recent barbecue in honor of their sobriety anniversaries.  (More)

2002 LifeRing Congress
Draws Good Participation

People came from far and wide to Berkeley over the St. Patrick's Day Weekend to participate in the 2002 LifeRing Congress.  The event featured a full day of public workshops on Saturday, headlined by author Lonny Shavelson, followed by a dinner with entertainment, and a delegates' assembly on Sunday morning.  Click for complete Congress coverage