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My Independence Day
By C.A. E.
Today was the "4th of July" (U.S. Independence Day) party at the American Consulate. I should have been but wasn't prepared for the barrage of alcohol. Waiters with trays of wine and beer stepped up to us as we entered the gates, and the smell was pervasive. I noticed one person with a glass of orange drink but, rather than hunt for it, opted for drinking nothing. That was O.K. because one of my primary reasons for being there was networking (at which I have to say I had some success).
Then I was invited to someone's house for "tea" with a group of women. I had to brace myself when I saw a huge bottle of champagne with glasses on the table. This was our tea?! I was fortunate, though, because three of the five of us didn't drink. In fact, the hostess got out a smaller bottle of champagne for the other two, and I indulged in a glass of cranberry juice.
I had a chance to use that glorious expression, "I can't drink." The hostess pushed a little, saying "Just for the toast," but I repeated, "I can't drink." She murmured something about Mormons (who are practically the only people in Japan who don't drink) and the others, even though they had barely met me, knew enough about me to have a good laugh. I was preparing some explanations in my head about osteoporosis and such, but no one even asked why I couldn't drink.
As each of the guests left the party at the Consulate, we were handed a "gift bag" containing an American orange (a nice treat since they're about $1.00 a piece here) and a can of Budweiser. Happy 4th of July!
I left my can with the hostess of our "tea party." I've never really liked beer, but I didn't even want the temptation of it sitting in my apartment.Actually, I did much more than survive the "4th of July." I thoroughly enjoyed myself, and because of being sober will remember every minute of it. Hope other Americans on this list are able to have similar experiences.
Sober in Sapporo.
Posted July 2, 1999